I’ve realized I’m not alone. I’m reading comments on other fashion blogs, talking to my friends—and guess what? I’m not the only one that feels…uninspired sometimes during the hot summer months.
When you regularly take photos of what you’re wearing, it’s sometimes (painfully) easy to compare what you’re wearing now, in August, to what you were wearing in February, for example.
Here’s the thing, though: fall and winter clothing looks better. Looks more stylish. Let’s just get that out on the table. There’s something about wearing JUST a dress with a pair of sandals that seems to get the ladies all riled up. There are no big chunky scarves, no opaque tights, definitely no boots and well, if you wear your sleek wool coat in August, you’re either living in an atypical climate or suffering (literally) for fashion.
I was reading a few comments, as I mentioned above, on a fashion blog (that shall remain nameless) the other day in which they accused the writer of being “uninspired” and “boring” for wearing—gasp—cute dresses and sandals. Cue side eye. Uninspired? Really?
Let’s bring this down to earth. It’s about 80-90 degrees across much of the continental United States (where this blogger was based), so I was a little confused. What do you want her to do? Put on a trenchcoat? Haul out the booties? Wear a scarf? It’s too hot to wear jeans these days, people! Slow down the cray!
These days, style (especially street style) is often defined by how much you can put on, rather than what is comfortable or what is practical. Your style meter goes up in direct proportion to how many accessories you’ve got poured onto your body (I’m including tights in this assessment), so naturally, you’re more likely to look conventionally “stylish” in the winter when you are wearing more things on your body. More tights. More scarves. More hats. More gloves. More. More. More.
I think what a lot of these commenters were ignoring, or choosing to ignore, is that the beauty of summer clothing is in the minimalism. It’s not about the accessories or being overdressed for a hot, humid climate. That’s not stylish. That’s insanity. It’s about glowy skin. Lots of leg. Pedicures. Sandals. Short, cotton dresses. A couple bangles. Wavy hair. It’s about ease and comfort, not sweating the instant you stand in the sun.
I admit that I often look in the mirror during the summer and lament that I feel uninspired or that my style seems to have taken a backseat in favor of dressing for the weather. Then, I flipped this entire notion and thought about it from Brandon’s perspective, since I often ask for his opinion on what I’m wearing. Summer, from his point of view, is the BEST time of year for women. Showing lots of skin, getting a little sun, exposing some leg, wearing tanktops, short shorts and loose, sexy dresses. Women may look at a fashion blog and then, ugh, another dress? Another pair of sandals?
But, really, what’s so wrong with that? When did wearing less become less stylish?
A couple days ago Brandon and I went out and I wore only a (really) short dress, a pair of metallic sandals, a necklace and some earrings. I kept staring at my closet. Should I add a belt? A cardigan? What about a jacket? But then I realized it was 90 degrees outside. At night. Like I’m REALLY going to take a jacket and actually put it on my body. Nope. I left all the extras and just wore the dress.
It was a good decision. I felt comfortable, confident and Brandon (a card-carrying member of the leg man club) approved whole-heartedly.
Last winter, I used to throw on everything, copying the street style looks I loved and the magazine ads I put up on my inspiration board. I’d think, “I have never looked more stylish!” Of course, I’d be wearing about 70 different things in one look, but I was totally into it. Layers. Tights. Accessories. Bring it on!
But, summer style? Especially practical summer style? It’s under-appreciated. Think about it! You can grab three things from closet and get out the door. You can slip into a dress and air-dry your hair and head to dinner in 10 minutes flat. Looking great, looking sexy will never be easier than it is for three or four months smack dab in the middle of the year.
I hope that one day the fashion community (or, the online fashion community) will see the minimal, easy summer styles as equally stylish as those multi-layered, booted, legging’d, huge scarf’ed up looks all over the Internet come November. (I’m not going to lie…I am 100% looking forward to wearing all of those items myself.) But, I’m not going to beat myself up if I just want to throw on a romper and some lip gloss.
Summer is beautiful! Evenings on the porch, long walks with the dogs, eating outside with your friends as the sun goes down. Those are the types of things that summer fashion was made for! And, to me, summer fashion should be fun, easy, minimal and sexy.
Embrace the two or three things maximum that you’re wearing! After all, the best summer accessory you could possibly show off is…you.