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My very favorite maternity leggings were from Forever 21’s now-defunct maternity line (RIP), but these from ASOS are only $20 and look pretty darn comfy. 

My very favorite maternity leggings were from Forever 21’s now-defunct maternity line (RIP), but these from ASOS are only $20 and look pretty darn comfy. 

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I need a budget friendly maxi dress type outfit to bring baby home after delivery. Im also 5'1" so finding something I won't trip on is a factor. What would you suggest?

- Asked by losingwins

If you’re looking for a budget-friendly maxi, Old Navy is definitely your best bet. 

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But can I make a suggestion? You may not want to wear a dress (even a comfy maxi) home from the hospital. I know lots of people do it and they look great…but there are also very bulky, very unwieldly undergarments you’ll be dealing with. If you get hit with a postpartum sweating session, you do not want both bare legs trapped together in a skirt sweat box. 

My suggestion is to wear something that you won’t be face palming yourself for when you look at photos but that is comfortable to move around in and that you’ll feel confident in. When I left the hospital, I looked at least 6 months pregnant. I wouldn’t have wanted to wear a dress then—any dress! I would have definitely still looked quite pregnant in a regular, non-maternity dress. I’d suggest packing a loose tunic or long maternity top like this Topshop one. Avoid gray (in case you start sweating). A pair of basic black leggings would be fine, but a maternity pair will be even more comfortable. If you’re worried about breastfeeding access in a regular top, you can wear a nursing cami underneath (letting you forgo a bra if you want, phew!) Another option is a maternity buttondown tunic like this one. It will skim over your body without being too clingy and you have easy boob access if needed. Paired with comfy, chic flats, a watch or bracelets, a simple ponytail and a little bit of makeup, you’ll look pulled-together and you’ll feel comfortable. 

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Can you help me find cute maxi dresses or even regular dresses in the maternity section (for a reasonable price)? I have looked everywhere I feel like, and I can't find ANYTHING. I want something for my mid March baby shower & I live in GA so the weather will be pretty warm by then. THANK YOU in advance :)

- Asked by babymamabond

I’m not surprised you’ve been having trouble because there is barely ANYTHING decent available. Just look at this Old Navy monstrosity I stumbled upon. A maternity dress with a drop waist? That is really just the worst. 

Here are a few options I found for you and I included a few accessory ideas too.

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This Topshop dress ($80) is a little pricey, but the draped front would be really flattering. You could jazz it up a little more with exciting shoes or jewelry, but I kept it simple with black pumps.

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This may be more formal than you want, but if you keep the shoes casual and the accessories minimal, this ASOS dress is a good option. It’s only $32.21 (from $76) and would look good with a simple ponytail, pretty earrings and a bracelet. Flats would be comfortable too. 

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This is the most springy and trendy of the bunch. This ASOS dress is also the most expensive at $93. (It’s also available in navy if you don’t want to go quite so bright.) Add a bracelet stack (1, 2, 3) and some contrasting short wedges

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Why don’t more people wear tops with pants to their baby showers? Why didn’t I think of doing that? (I could not find a mat dress I liked and eventually found a non-maternity wrap dress that miraculously fit.) Anyway, I love this outfit. I think it’s my favorite. I love the bold, graphic top ($30) and I can personally vouch for the comfort and fit of H&M’s maternity pants ($24.95). You can do a more grown-up look by adding a pair of pointed toe pumps or do something more fun with a pair of yellow sandals

I hope this helps or at least gives you an idea of where to start looking! Good luck, have fun and congratulations! 

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hi jackie! as my favorite fashion-mom blogger, i have a tough one for you. our baby is set to arrive on Feb 6th, and in the event we have a boy, we'll have a bris on Feb 13th. i've heard i'll still look 5ish months preg at that point, but i want to wear something cute and flattering (read: not tight) for the ceremony. any suggestions for dresses or flowy top/skirt that will look good at that point post-baby? you're the best! (ps tell me if i'm insane for even trying to look cute one week after)

- Asked by reneenicolesays

Hey lady! You’re not insane! I think the best option for you is to look for a shift dress with some give. (Nothing too tight!) I know you probably don’t want to see another maternity anything for a really long time, but this dress from the ASOS maternity line doesn’t have the hallmarks of being a “maternity dress” (no empire waist, for example) and would give you some extra fabric around your waistline.

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Anything too flowy may have the opposite effect and make what you’re wearing look more maternity-esque. So, considering that, I like how tailored this dress is without being clingy or tight. 

I added the jacket for extra coverage. If you wear it open, it will help define your waist from a front angle. When I was one week postpartum, I had a lot of accordion rolls happening when I sat down. The jacket will help with coverage there too.

Wear a sparkly necklace to draw the eye up, add a pair of neutral pumps and call it a day! You’ll look amazing. (And congratulations!) 

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Hi Jaclyn! I've searched your blog but can't find anything to help. My baby shower is going to be early Feb in Chicago (likely super cold outdoors, hot and dry inside) and I'll be 8 months pregnant. Im normally short and big-boobed, and that's majorly intensified with a stomach in front. Any ideas on how to look cute, feel comfortable, and not freeze/ sweat to death? I pretty much live in leggings and scarves right now, so not sure how to be party-appropriate. Thanks!!!

- Asked by accidentalmental

I definitely agree that you should be comfortable in whatever you wear to your baby shower, especially since if you are adjusting what you’re wearing or feel self-conscious in it, you won’t be able to focus on having fun at the event! 

I remember all too well how annoying it was getting dressed the last two months I was pregnant. I stopped bringing my coat into most places because I’d just end up getting hot anyway. 

I think the best route for you to go is to dress in comfortable layers and if you need to bring an extra coat with you to get from home to the shower location, then you can add that on top too. I added jackets or cardigans to each outfit, but you could remove those and the outfit still looks complete. I also added scarves because you could shed the cardigan and keep the scarf or vise versa. Make sure you wear whatever shoes are comfortable for you (I vetoed my wedges at the last second and just wore flats). Flat black boots go with everything! 

I think each of these dresses would flatter your body type and I’ve found that when it comes to maternity dresses, it’s far better to wear something relatively form-fitting than something blousy or oversized. If you aren’t comfortable with showing too many curves, you can keep the cardigan or jacket on for extra coverage. 

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I love this dress because if you get overheated, you can shed the jacket and scarf and cool off quickly. Yes, it’s cableknit—but it’s sleeveless! A tuxedo jacket makes the outfit more dressy, while the boots help keep you comfortable. A neutral infinity scarf keeps the focus on the bright dress. 

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I love the neckline on this dress! If you’re worried about too much attention on your chest and stomach, the neckline will help draw eyes up. I like this dress without a cardigan, but if you want a light layer, this lightweight trench would be a good option. A bright scarf looks nice against the blue dress and ankle wedge boots would be comfortable AND stylish. (Oh, and I added this bracelet just because it’s so darn pretty. Find less expensive lookalikes here.) 

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Of all the three outfits, this one is my favorite! It may not be dressy enough if you’re having a fancy shower, but I think it’s perfect for a close friends/family event. The dress is a comfortable knit and I love the long cardigan—just remove the belt. (Both are on sale!) Keep everything else simple with neutral boots (similar), a simple necklace and a solid-colored scarf

I hope this helps or at least gives you a direction to start looking in! Congratulations and have fun! 

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Calling all pregnant ladies! This dress would be gorgeous for a baby shower (or any other occasion) and it’s only $26 on ASOS right now! (Sizes 6, 8 and 10 are left.)

ASOS Maternity Skater Dress, $26.38 (from $40) 

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I feel like since I'm a mom now, I should be giving better baby shower presents especially to the new importantbabies in my life, but am at a loss. I've been making a basket of my "first cold go to's" (Nose Frida, Boogey Wipes, Saline Swabs, eucalyptus bathwash, Tylenol etc.), but want to give something more memorable / treasurable. What is one of the best baby presents you've been given / given someone?

- Asked by emmysmacks

I love that idea of the first cold go-tos basket! 

The best baby gifts I got were the super practical ones or the things I would have never thought to buy for myself. The handmade/personalized gifts were especially great! 

Here are a few ideas:

  • Pottery Barn Kids Personalized Tote, $49
  • Personalized new baby print from Etsy (various options available, but I like this one for $30). You could print out the example photo, include it in a card and tell them that the official one will be sent to them once the baby is born. (So you have the weight, length, time of birth, etc.) 
  • I love my Mom’s One Line a Day journal. You could also get a set of pretty pens or pencils to go with it. 
  • These Stella McCartney Kids booties are so cute and you can bet no one would ever buy $45 baby booties for themselves! (Maybe.) 
  • There are so many sweet handmade baby hats available on Etsy. If you know that they like a certain animal or have a specific nursery theme (like owls), you could try to get a hat to match
  • I still think one of the best shower gifts ever would be a massage gift certificate. Then the mom can either use it during the last few brutal weeks of pregnancy or as a treat after the baby is born. 

I’m sure some other people might want to chime in here too! I hope this helps! :) 

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When we left for the hospital, we left the house at about 11 pm and grabbed our already-packed bags as we headed out the door. Unfortunately, we weren’t really as prepared as we thought we were and because we were going to the hospital because I was sick (and not really in labor yet), we didn’t exactly think we’d be coming home in three days with a baby. 
Here are some things that I did manage to bring that were really great and a lot of things that I definitely forgot or didn’t think about that I wish I had packed:

Gap Nursing Cami, $22.95 - I had packed a pajama, robe and camisole set that I wore in recovery and I’m so glad I had it along. It was comfortable and loose and made it easy to nurse too.
Old Navy Maternity Yoga Pants, $20 - Loose maternity pajama or yoga pants are a good choice since you’ll still be about the same size you were at 6 months pregnant for several days (or a week or more!).
Lucy Studio Grip Sock, $14 - Grip socks saved me! My temperature kept fluctuating constantly since I had a fever and keeping my feet warm really helped when I started shivering uncontrollably. 
Old Navy Flip-Flops, $3.94 - Bring a pair of cheap flip-flops for the shower. Don’t forget to throw in a pair for your husband/partner too. 
Blue Canoe Light Robe, $35.96 - A cotton robe was a good light layer for me in recovery. 
Gap Support Cami, $19.95 - I brought some nursing bras with me but didn’t wear them except to go home. A support cami was a more practical option for me. 

Honest Wipes, $4.95 - Some hospitals—ours included—don’t provide wipes and we hadn’t brought any of our own along. They handed us a stack of something that seemed like a slightly softer paper towel and they told us to wet them and use them like wipes. They…uh…didn’t work so well. 
Miracle Blanket, $39.95 - I wish we’d had our Miracle Blanket or SwaddleMe blankets with us. Every shift change brought a new nurse with a different swaddling technique and it was completely overwhelming. Isobel also broke through every single swaddle that we or the nurses tried. Disaster! 
Gap Favorite Solid Bodysuit (3-Pack), $15 - Some hospitals provide onesies but don’t bet on it! 
Old Navy Baby Socks, $6.94 - See above. 

Bliss 6-Pack, $25 - I’d packed DIY travel size versions of most of the toiletries I wanted, but this is an even easier solution. 
Bliss Naked Body Butter, $29 - Despite the massive amounts of fluids the hospital was pumping into my body, I was constantly thirsty and dehydrated. I was using lotion a lot but I had brought a scented one and turns out that any weird smell made me nauseated during labor. Next time (if there is a next time), I’m bringing unscented everything! 
Burt’s Bees Nourishing Lip Balm, $2.99 - Unscented and bring two. Or three! 
Smashbox Photo Op Undereye Brightener, $19 - After only sleeping about 3 hours out of 40 or so by the time Isobel was born, I was looking a hot mess. My undereye circles were epic and although I brought some makeup, I neglected to bring any concealer. 
Suave Professionals Keratin Infusion Dry Shampoo, $3.19 - Another thing I wish I’d brought! 

Baggu Canvas Tote, $24 - We came home with what felt like twice the amount of things we’d taken. (Don’t forget that people might stop by with gifts too!) An extra bag would have been helpful to get everything home. 
iPhone Charger Dock/Speakers - Thankfully, we remembered our phone chargers. But a combination speaker/charger system would be good if you intend on listening to any music while in labor. 
My Brest Friend Nursing Pillow or Boppy, $44 - The number one stupidest thing I forgot to pack was a nursing pillow. Trying to get the knack of nursing while propping my elbow on a 2-inch thick hospital pillow was ridiculous. I preferred the Brest Friend pillow to Boppy for several months because I was so tall and the Boppy didn’t give me enough support or height. (Brest Friend wraps fully around you and clasps so you can position the pillow where it is most comfortable for you.) 
A few final thoughts:
It’s probably best not to wear anything gray. Postpartum sweating is a thing. 
Don’t forget the obvious stuff like deodorant, toothpaste/toothbrush, razor, etc. We went to the travel size section at Target and just grabbed extras of all these things. 
Our hospital had great snacks and a good cafeteria so we mostly didn’t get into the snacks we’d packed. (If you have a doctor or hospital staff that is strict about eating while in labor, you might want to surreptitiously stash a few goodies.) I was sick and I couldn’t keep much down, but my midwife brought me a cup of broth while I was in labor that I could sip on. A little packet of instant broth you could add to hot water might be a good option if you need something savory but don’t want to necessary “eat.” 
Most hospitals have those blow dryers that attach to the walls so you don’t necessarily need to waste the space packing a blow dryer. 
I know it seems obvious, but I almost packed a warm zip-up bundler for Isobel to wear home in our hospital bag before Brandon helpfully pointed out that we wouldn’t be able to latch the harness between her legs in the car seat. o_O
HAIR BANDS AND LANOLIN
If you decide to use a pacifier, you may want to bring one or two. 
I kept all the baby things we packed in the diaper bag separate from our things. It made it easier for me to grab what I needed without having to hunt through all our sweatpants and toiletries to find baby socks. 
One last note: try and take everything in and remember every detail. If you don’t trust your memory, maybe sit down with a family member or your husband/partner a couple days after to write down what happened, who said what and what you felt like during labor, after your baby was born, how you felt in recovery. Even if you never intend on sharing anything about your birth with anyone, you’d be surprised how quickly the smaller details can fade. Last night Brandon mentioned something that had happened while I was in labor that I had completely forgotten about…and it’s only been nine months!                
Is there anything you wish you’d brought in your hospital bag or that you are really glad you packed?

When we left for the hospital, we left the house at about 11 pm and grabbed our already-packed bags as we headed out the door. Unfortunately, we weren’t really as prepared as we thought we were and because we were going to the hospital because I was sick (and not really in labor yet), we didn’t exactly think we’d be coming home in three days with a baby. 

Here are some things that I did manage to bring that were really great and a lot of things that I definitely forgot or didn’t think about that I wish I had packed:

  1. Gap Nursing Cami, $22.95 - I had packed a pajama, robe and camisole set that I wore in recovery and I’m so glad I had it along. It was comfortable and loose and made it easy to nurse too.
  2. Old Navy Maternity Yoga Pants, $20 - Loose maternity pajama or yoga pants are a good choice since you’ll still be about the same size you were at 6 months pregnant for several days (or a week or more!).
  3. Lucy Studio Grip Sock, $14 - Grip socks saved me! My temperature kept fluctuating constantly since I had a fever and keeping my feet warm really helped when I started shivering uncontrollably. 
  4. Old Navy Flip-Flops, $3.94 - Bring a pair of cheap flip-flops for the shower. Don’t forget to throw in a pair for your husband/partner too. 
  5. Blue Canoe Light Robe, $35.96 - A cotton robe was a good light layer for me in recovery. 
  6. Gap Support Cami, $19.95 - I brought some nursing bras with me but didn’t wear them except to go home. A support cami was a more practical option for me. 

  1. Honest Wipes, $4.95 - Some hospitals—ours included—don’t provide wipes and we hadn’t brought any of our own along. They handed us a stack of something that seemed like a slightly softer paper towel and they told us to wet them and use them like wipes. They…uh…didn’t work so well. 
  2. Miracle Blanket, $39.95 - I wish we’d had our Miracle Blanket or SwaddleMe blankets with us. Every shift change brought a new nurse with a different swaddling technique and it was completely overwhelming. Isobel also broke through every single swaddle that we or the nurses tried. Disaster! 
  3. Gap Favorite Solid Bodysuit (3-Pack), $15 - Some hospitals provide onesies but don’t bet on it! 
  4. Old Navy Baby Socks, $6.94 - See above. 

  1. Bliss 6-Pack, $25 - I’d packed DIY travel size versions of most of the toiletries I wanted, but this is an even easier solution. 
  2. Bliss Naked Body Butter, $29 - Despite the massive amounts of fluids the hospital was pumping into my body, I was constantly thirsty and dehydrated. I was using lotion a lot but I had brought a scented one and turns out that any weird smell made me nauseated during labor. Next time (if there is a next time), I’m bringing unscented everything! 
  3. Burt’s Bees Nourishing Lip Balm, $2.99 - Unscented and bring two. Or three! 
  4. Smashbox Photo Op Undereye Brightener, $19 - After only sleeping about 3 hours out of 40 or so by the time Isobel was born, I was looking a hot mess. My undereye circles were epic and although I brought some makeup, I neglected to bring any concealer. 
  5. Suave Professionals Keratin Infusion Dry Shampoo, $3.19 - Another thing I wish I’d brought! 

  1. Baggu Canvas Tote, $24 - We came home with what felt like twice the amount of things we’d taken. (Don’t forget that people might stop by with gifts too!) An extra bag would have been helpful to get everything home. 
  2. iPhone Charger Dock/Speakers - Thankfully, we remembered our phone chargers. But a combination speaker/charger system would be good if you intend on listening to any music while in labor. 
  3. My Brest Friend Nursing Pillow or Boppy, $44 - The number one stupidest thing I forgot to pack was a nursing pillow. Trying to get the knack of nursing while propping my elbow on a 2-inch thick hospital pillow was ridiculous. I preferred the Brest Friend pillow to Boppy for several months because I was so tall and the Boppy didn’t give me enough support or height. (Brest Friend wraps fully around you and clasps so you can position the pillow where it is most comfortable for you.) 

A few final thoughts:

  • It’s probably best not to wear anything gray. Postpartum sweating is a thing. 
  • Don’t forget the obvious stuff like deodorant, toothpaste/toothbrush, razor, etc. We went to the travel size section at Target and just grabbed extras of all these things. 
  • Our hospital had great snacks and a good cafeteria so we mostly didn’t get into the snacks we’d packed. (If you have a doctor or hospital staff that is strict about eating while in labor, you might want to surreptitiously stash a few goodies.) I was sick and I couldn’t keep much down, but my midwife brought me a cup of broth while I was in labor that I could sip on. A little packet of instant broth you could add to hot water might be a good option if you need something savory but don’t want to necessary “eat.” 
  • Most hospitals have those blow dryers that attach to the walls so you don’t necessarily need to waste the space packing a blow dryer. 
  • I know it seems obvious, but I almost packed a warm zip-up bundler for Isobel to wear home in our hospital bag before Brandon helpfully pointed out that we wouldn’t be able to latch the harness between her legs in the car seat. o_O
  • HAIR BANDS AND LANOLIN
  • If you decide to use a pacifier, you may want to bring one or two. 
  • I kept all the baby things we packed in the diaper bag separate from our things. It made it easier for me to grab what I needed without having to hunt through all our sweatpants and toiletries to find baby socks. 

One last note: try and take everything in and remember every detail. If you don’t trust your memory, maybe sit down with a family member or your husband/partner a couple days after to write down what happened, who said what and what you felt like during labor, after your baby was born, how you felt in recovery. Even if you never intend on sharing anything about your birth with anyone, you’d be surprised how quickly the smaller details can fade. Last night Brandon mentioned something that had happened while I was in labor that I had completely forgotten about…and it’s only been nine months!                

Is there anything you wish you’d brought in your hospital bag or that you are really glad you packed?

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Maternity (Mostly) Under $50 for Fall/Winter

A few pregnant friends asked me about my suggestions for fall/winter items they should buy and figured that a few other people might be interested too! 

I wrote an older post about maternity style tips, but wanted to include some actual links to items here. I always look for ways to be the most practical when purchasing anything, but buying maternity clothing calls for even more practicality. I look at price point first and then function: can it be worn post-pregnancy too? Is it comfortable? Is it easy to wear with other things I already own? 

Open cardigans (whether they are designed that way or just worn unbuttoned) are the easiest way to add a layer when the weather gets cold. I barely wore a winter coat when I was nearing the end of my pregnancy because I was hot all the time and barely noticed the 30-40 degree temperatures outside. A cardigan with a scarf was usually a comfortable way for me to layer without overheating. 

Top: Express Cascading Neon Cover-Up, $49.50

Bottom: ASOS Cardigan, $43.12

I bought my extra-long cardigans at H&M, but I like these Old Navy ones too. Cardigans were essential in being able to wear some of my non-maternity tops. (I also used them to cover up unbuttoned non-maternity pants.) Some people prefer belly bands to help add extra length to their tops too. 

Old Navy Jersey Stretch Tanks, $12.94 each

Maternity tops at specialty stores tend to be overpriced and they’re often cut so that it’s difficult to wear them without looking pregnant post-pregnancy. I like longer, oversized tops instead and choosing neutral colors means it’s easier to integrate them into your existing wardrobe. 

Top: Topshop Oversized Roll Sleeve Tee, $32

Middle: Mango Oversized Striped T-Shirt, $34.99

Bottom: Topshop Fleck Oversized Top, $36

Target is a great source for work-appropriate maternity dresses. If you shop online, there’s even more selection. The striped one here is a nursing dress too! (They’re hard to find.) 

Top: Target Maternity Long-Sleeve Nursing Dress, $30

Bottom: Target Maternity Long-Sleeve Cowl Neck Sweater Dress, $29.99

Do NOT spend a ton of money on maternity pants. You’re wearing them for such a short time and they’re really one of the few things that you won’t want to wear after. Actually, scratch that—you’ll LONG to wear them because they’re so amazing and comfortable. Anyway, don’t spend a lot of money on them. Get one or two pairs of jeans and maybe one more fun pair of pants, like the hot pink jeggings. Old Navy and H&M are both good sources for maternity pants under $40.

One more note: you might prefer full-panel maternity pants or ones that have the panel only coming up halfway on your stomach.  Or you might not care! You may want to try some on to see what you think. (I hated full-panel pants.) 

Top: Old Navy Maternity Full-Panel Rockstar Jeggings, $24 (from $39)

Bottom: Old Navy Maternity Pop-Color Rockstar Jeggings, $30 (from $39) 

Maternity leggings are so, so important. Regular leggings will sit awkwardly underneath your belly and give major muffin top—bad! Maternity leggings typically have a wider panel and a bit more stretch. 

Gap Maternity Supersoft Leggings, $29.95

Yosi Samra flats are amazing. They’re so soft and comfortable, but the best thing about them is that they are completely stretchy. My feet swelled during the last few weeks I was pregnant, and these were the only things I could get on my feet. (And yes, they’re a little bit more than $50, but worth it!)

Yosi Samra Cap Toe Ballet Flats, $66

Good luck and I hope this helps! 

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