cupcaked asked: hey! i'm not sure if you've mentioned it in the past (i searched but came up empty handed) but i was wondering if you had read The Art of Racing in the Rain? a follower tipped me off about the book and i picked it up by its description. based on how you talk about your own dogs, i think you'd love it! it's a really quick, easy read as well.

I have read it! It was such a beautiful book. Certainly one of the best books I’ve read this year. Here’s my review of it.

(Also, bonus points go to any book about a dog that makes me cry in a happy, good way instead of a Marley & Me deep depression, want to curl up in a ball way.)

michmaybenot asked: I like the hat you're wearing in the picture your mom posted today, where's it from?

I think you were talking about this picture!

Guess what? The hat was from Wal-Mart. I think it was around $7.


kimaleedarling asked: 
Hi jaclyn! I was wondering if you have any tips for a woman more on the chubby side? Ever since having my kids, I’ve been self conscious about what I wear, I mean I love to wear all the baby dolls and things like that, but sometimes it makes me feel like I’m pregnant again. But I also don’t want to wear a tight fitting shirt and have my belly hang over. I also would love to wear a dress, but my legs are on the big side. Any advice to not look like a fool?  :)

I know that the classic go-to if you’re feeling a bit self-conscious is to grab something black, but a more fun option is to go with florals. The vivid print helps distract from areas you may not want someone to focus on (like your legs or your stomach), and a nipped in waist with a slightly full skirt is a flattering dress cut on anyone. Pairing a dress that comes right above the knee with heels helps to lengthen your overall look, too.
If you’re not comfortable showing your arms in a dress like this, it’s a quick fix! Add a light flowy cardigan and belt it at the smallest part of your waistline (on most women, that’s about 4-5 inches below your breasts). In colder months (like fall), throw on a leather motorcycle jacket. Sexy and fun!
And Kim—let’s get one more thing straight! You won’t look like a fool. A lot of curvy women are afraid to show their legs in dresses—but it’s actually one of the most flattering looks for any body type. The best dress silhouette for any body type is one like the dress above. Nipped waist, slightly full skirt, length right above the knee and a floral print or black/jewel tone color. Go for it!

Faith21 Floral Dress, $23
Payless zoe&zac Sandals, $30
ShopRuche Clutch, $29
Hive & Honey Wood Gold Bangle, $24

kimaleedarling asked:

Hi jaclyn! I was wondering if you have any tips for a woman more on the chubby side? Ever since having my kids, I’ve been self conscious about what I wear, I mean I love to wear all the baby dolls and things like that, but sometimes it makes me feel like I’m pregnant again. But I also don’t want to wear a tight fitting shirt and have my belly hang over. I also would love to wear a dress, but my legs are on the big side. Any advice to not look like a fool?
:)

I know that the classic go-to if you’re feeling a bit self-conscious is to grab something black, but a more fun option is to go with florals. The vivid print helps distract from areas you may not want someone to focus on (like your legs or your stomach), and a nipped in waist with a slightly full skirt is a flattering dress cut on anyone. Pairing a dress that comes right above the knee with heels helps to lengthen your overall look, too.

If you’re not comfortable showing your arms in a dress like this, it’s a quick fix! Add a light flowy cardigan and belt it at the smallest part of your waistline (on most women, that’s about 4-5 inches below your breasts). In colder months (like fall), throw on a leather motorcycle jacket. Sexy and fun!

And Kim—let’s get one more thing straight! You won’t look like a fool. A lot of curvy women are afraid to show their legs in dresses—but it’s actually one of the most flattering looks for any body type. The best dress silhouette for any body type is one like the dress above. Nipped waist, slightly full skirt, length right above the knee and a floral print or black/jewel tone color. Go for it!


Amee asked:
Help! Curvy girl desperately desperately looking for a classic little black dress - short with elbow length sleeves for $150 or less. (I have a scar on my upper arm that wants hidden.) I have just over a week to find it and I’ve looked everywhere and can find nothing! Seriously getting desperate. Any ideas??

It’s hard to find dresses with sleeves, but here are several that may do the trick! I broke my nothing-under-$100 rule and added one dress that’s $130 because you mentioned you’d be willing to spend under $150.
I’m crossing my fingers that one of these works for you!
Top row:

Wyatt “Carrie” Dress, $78
ASOS Ruched Mesh Dress, $67
Silence & Noise Knit Crossback Dress, $58
Riller & Fount Damsel Flutter Dress, $98

Right, standing models:

Velvet “Koko” Dress, $130
MICHAEL Michael Kors “Wedge” Dress, $45

Bottom row:

LnA Dress, $74
Unconditional Tux Collar Dress, $84
Vero Moda Jersey Dress, $27

Amee asked:

Help! Curvy girl desperately desperately looking for a classic little black dress - short with elbow length sleeves for $150 or less. (I have a scar on my upper arm that wants hidden.) I have just over a week to find it and I’ve looked everywhere and can find nothing! Seriously getting desperate. Any ideas??

It’s hard to find dresses with sleeves, but here are several that may do the trick! I broke my nothing-under-$100 rule and added one dress that’s $130 because you mentioned you’d be willing to spend under $150.

I’m crossing my fingers that one of these works for you!

Top row:

Right, standing models:

Bottom row:


missmteachesagain asked: 
 I’m a teacher who is recovering from a broken foot… because of this I have to wear shoes with laces for the next few weeks. Unfortunately, its hot, I dislike sneakers and I prefer to wear skirts or dresses. Can you help me put some outfits together? I’ve been wearing chucks and some plaid RL sneakers since they are a bit more girly, but I’d love some more ideas. Do you know of any other sneakers that would go better with dresse? Thank you! 

Stick with the Chucks! They look the best with dresses/skirts. My other suggestion would be to look for Keds or TOMS—although you said you need shoes with laces, so TOMS might be out for the time being.
Here’s an outfit that I’d pair with sneakers. Shirt dresses look really great with sneakers, and if you stay away from frilly skirts, you avoid the retro/little girl vibe.
Hope your foot feels better soon!

Forever 21 Dress, $28
Converse Vintage Sneakers, $51
ASOS Retro Oversized Watch, $37
ModCloth Evening Horizon Scarf, $18
Kenneth Cole Faux Pearl Studs, $11
missmteachesagain asked:

I’m a teacher who is recovering from a broken foot… because of this I have to wear shoes with laces for the next few weeks. Unfortunately, its hot, I dislike sneakers and I prefer to wear skirts or dresses. Can you help me put some outfits together? I’ve been wearing chucks and some plaid RL sneakers since they are a bit more girly, but I’d love some more ideas. Do you know of any other sneakers that would go better with dresse? Thank you!

Stick with the Chucks! They look the best with dresses/skirts. My other suggestion would be to look for Keds or TOMS—although you said you need shoes with laces, so TOMS might be out for the time being.

Here’s an outfit that I’d pair with sneakers. Shirt dresses look really great with sneakers, and if you stay away from frilly skirts, you avoid the retro/little girl vibe.

Hope your foot feels better soon!

meepmeep asked: Hi there,
I like the ASOS brand you use in your outfit mockups. Have you ordered from them, and do you find the size conversion to be true? They have tons of cute things! Thanks!

I have not ordered from them (not for lack of want, but I’m an H&M devotee), but if you’ve ever shopped at H&M, you should be more comfortable with the size conversion.

The trick with UK size conversion is to leave your vanity at the door. H&M has gotten better about sizing more true to US size standards, but it’s still tricky.

A good rule of thumb is to go up two dress sizes. Like I said, check the vanity at the door. If you are a US size two, you’ll probably need a UK size 6—or even 8. Be careful with dresses that zip up the side or back—they’ll run even smaller.

Go for it! From what I’ve heard, ASOS clothing is really fantastic and their prices are equally awesome.

mclarecolette asked: Hi Jackie! I'm starting my first out-of-college job and would like to buy affordable work clothes. I'm a size 6 and tall (5'10") with really long arms/torso. I can never find blouses or suit jackets that fit properly! At regular stores, they're too short in both the sleeves and the torso. When I ordered a Tall-sized suit from JC Penney's online, the smallest size they carried was 10T. The suit was long enough but I swam in it.

I know you're tall as well -- where would you suggest I look for blouses and jackets that will fit well but won't break the bank? Thank you!

Ahh, yes, I do have the exact same problem!

Here are my suggestions:

  • H&M tops and jackets tend to be cut for taller women. I usually have to go up a size for sleeve length in jackets, but it doesn’t sacrifice fit too badly anywhere else. 
  • New York & Company has a fabulous selection of suits for tall women. I tend to like their jackets better than their pants, which I sometimes find have a slightly dated fit. 
  • I’ve also had great luck with Banana Republic and the GAP’s selection for tall women. Banana has better full suits, but the GAP has quality trousers for a much more affordable price. Don’t bother checking in the stores—most of their items for tall women are online only.

I hope this helps! Us tall women have to stick together!


mouseover asked: 
 Salut, Jaclyn! I’ve come to you since you seem to have an answer for everything! ;) I’m staying in Belgium for three months in the fall and this California girl has little experience with real winter. What sort of pieces would you recommend for colder climates short of wrapping myself in a blanket and looking extremely fluffy? 

Ahh, YES! Finally! I can start talking about fall/winter clothing again!
Please note that I did not include a super-warm, down-filled coat in this post because my advice to you is to wait until you are in Belgium, see what the other girls are wearing and find out where they shop. You’ll save room in your suitcase and you’ll be able to find a fashion-forward, warm coat from a European retailer instead!
So, in lieu of the super-warm coat, I’ve included one that’s better for crisp fall weather—the classic trenchcoat. On chillier days, simply add more layers underneath: maybe a turtleneck and a cardigan or a sweater over a blouse.
And remember: the hallmarks of winter European fashion are boots and a chunky scarf, so don’t forget those! It’s worth spending a bit more money on really comfortable, durable boots since I’m sure you’ll be doing a lot of walking.
Have fun! It sounds like it will be an amazing experience!

London Fog Trench, $99
ASOS Jumper Top, $16
GAP Always Skinny pants, $60
Aerosoles “Risotto” Boots, $82
TopShop Tassel Scarf, $32
Imoni Grey Gloves (Lined with Cashmere), $85
Target Cloche, $15
mouseover asked:

Salut, Jaclyn! I’ve come to you since you seem to have an answer for everything! ;) I’m staying in Belgium for three months in the fall and this California girl has little experience with real winter. What sort of pieces would you recommend for colder climates short of wrapping myself in a blanket and looking extremely fluffy?

Ahh, YES! Finally! I can start talking about fall/winter clothing again!

Please note that I did not include a super-warm, down-filled coat in this post because my advice to you is to wait until you are in Belgium, see what the other girls are wearing and find out where they shop. You’ll save room in your suitcase and you’ll be able to find a fashion-forward, warm coat from a European retailer instead!

So, in lieu of the super-warm coat, I’ve included one that’s better for crisp fall weather—the classic trenchcoat. On chillier days, simply add more layers underneath: maybe a turtleneck and a cardigan or a sweater over a blouse.

And remember: the hallmarks of winter European fashion are boots and a chunky scarf, so don’t forget those! It’s worth spending a bit more money on really comfortable, durable boots since I’m sure you’ll be doing a lot of walking.

Have fun! It sounds like it will be an amazing experience!

britface asked: Hi Jaclyn - Just wanted to say I really love your blog!

I was just wondering if you had any advice for any of your readers who (like me) are a little/a lot on the pale side and don't feel comfortable wearing all the dresses and skirts you post, even though most of them are ridiculously gorgeous. I don't fake tan except on special occassions, because I have the tendency to go a certain shade of orange unless I use super super expensive self-tanners. I often have trouble finding something to wear during summer, especially on those days it's just physically impossible to wears pants and it doesn't help that there is much less selection of clothing where I live (little ol' New Zealand)! :(

Any advice would be appreciated!

Now this is just silly!

First of all, being on the pale side is NOT a bad thing. I know it can be hard to stay true to the pale instead of fake tanning/real tanning all over the place (especially if you have tanorexic friends), but trust me. Embracing the non-tan is a good thing.

Please see below for examples:

(P.S. Like how I wormed Robert Pattinson in there too?)

Anyway, my point is that you don’t need a tan to be beautiful. Celebrity culture pushed tanning and fake tanning on us in the mid-2000’s pretty hard, but there’s nothing more elegant and pretty than looking natural. And orange is never, ever natural—no matter what Paris Hilton would like you to think.

If you feel better about yourself with a bit of a glow, try a gradual tanning lotion like Dove’s Energy Glow (my fav) or Jergens Natural Glow. Instead of making you look tan, these just add a bit of color—as if you fell asleep outside for 30 minutes in the sun (something I don’t recommend you do, by the way).

Whichever way you feel comfortable—embrace it. But, know that super pale or with a bit of a lotion-assisted glow…either way, you’ll look great.

aliceintumblerland asked: Hey Jaclyn! I have a very similiar bow ring listed in my etsy shop here for just $9: http://www.etsy.com/listing/50624948/silver-bow-ring

I love it! (This is referring to the bow ring I used in this post yesterday.)

See a photo below: